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By Anne Jones
(Spanish version also available)
Would you like to improve the relationship you
have with your partner, your siblings, your parents,
your children or even your boss? There is a simple
process you can follow that will allow you to
release the negative emotions that may be spoiling
your love and to uplift the energies that flow
between you.
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you know that between two people who love
one another there are cords attaching them
to each other? These are energy links
that are formed by the thoughts of love
that flow between you and your loved one.
They are often referred to as heart strings
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As we are in the month of romance and we focus
on the love in our lives it would be timely to
consider what has happened to our existing relationships.
Do you and your partner still share the same heightened
magical bliss that you felt in the early days?
Do you still love each other without exception,
taking each other as you are without trying to
change or influence each other at all? If so then
you can pass on – if however, you are like
most of us and have found that all is not as wonderful
as it once was then read on as I am sharing with
you here a healing process for relationships.
Let’s first look at how we become attached
to some one. As an energy healer I see most issues
of health, emotions and mental well being in terms
of positive and negative energies. So let’s
see how we become energetically attached to someone
we love. Every time we think of someone they get
the benefit of the emotions that we are experiencing
as we focus upon them. So a beam of energy with
love goes to your loved one every time you think
of them. Over time this becomes a continual stream
of energy which forms an etheric cord linking
you to the person in your thoughts. If the feelings
are reciprocal there will be two cords and they
will intertwine and connect your two heart centres.
Your heart centre, or heart chakra as it is known,
is an energy centre situated in the middle of
your chest and is where you feel the emotions
of love. Psychics can see these energy connections
and report that when we are feeling pure, unconditional
love without any negative thoughts – just
as we are when we fall in love – then the
cords are a beautiful clear pink.
However, over time our relationships often become
challenged and deteriorate as negative emotions
start to flow between us; feelings such as jealousy,
possessiveness, domination or frustration come
in to mar the perfection of our original love.
The cords then reflect this by becoming darker
and less vibrant. Through a process of Cutting
the Cords you can release the emotions that have
built up and threatened your relationship and
you can replace the cord with one that is light
and bright again with love and respect.
When someone we love leaves us we are heart broken
– this break is caused by the tearing of
the heart chakra as the energy cord is pulled
away, this creates the pain we describe as heart
ache. Sometimes when we are deserted we will still
be attached to the past love and find it difficult
to fall in love with someone new. The Cutting
of the Cords process will also release you from
the past and allow you to create a new liaison.
Cutting
the Cords will help you to –
- improve your existing relationships
– e.g. partner, lover, parent, child,
sibling, friend or boss
- let go someone who has left you
- release the pain from current and past
relationships
- clear an aspect of yourself
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There are three parts to this most powerful
and transformational process.
- Releasing Sadness and Negative Emotions
Write down all the feelings you have about the
relationship you wish to clear. Don’t
hold back – the person will never read
this – it is purely for you to let go
your resentment, pain, bitterness or grief.
Now burn or tear up the letter and as you do
know you are letting go all the negative thoughts
and feelings for ever.
- Cut the Cords
Find a quiet spot, relax and close your eyes.
Now visualise yourself in a garden and see the
person involved standing in front of you. Imagine
you have a pair of gold scissors – cut
through the cords that bind you to that person.
Then visualise a clear pink cord between you.
Send forgiveness to the other person and to
yourself and realise that all relationships
actually teach us about ourselves and allow
us to grow no matter how unsuccessful they may
seem.
- The Healing
Your heart may feel sore after this clearing
so you can use rose quartz crystal on your heart
centre, or aromatherapy oils such as rose or
lavender to help heal it. Also state your intention
to avoid all negative traits in future. Know
that you will speak up about your needs in your
relationship and know that you will in future
only attract supportive and loving relationships.
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